This is going to be one hate-filled "thanks" giving this year. I, personally, have taken steps to draw a neutral zone in the areas I can and told everyone to expect an abrupt exit from me should that not be respected.
If that's how things are around here I can visualize how non-homogeneous families will be this year.
Hate doesn't heal. It festers. Sure you can ignore it, but then eventually it starts to smell and you lose a limb.